Prayers for Rick and Kay Warren

The material below was copied from a post and link from Ed Stetzer on Facebook.  I wanted to share so those who are similarly concerned.


Rick sent the following email to his staff at Saddleback, and it was published online by Charisma Magazine:

Over the past 33 years we’ve been together through every kind of crisis. Kay and I’ve been privileged to hold your hands as you faced a crisis or loss, stand with you at gravesides, and prayed for you when ill. Today, we need your prayer for us.

No words can express the anguished grief we feel right now. Our youngest son, Matthew, age 27, and a lifelong member of Saddleback, died today.

You who watched Matthew grow up knew he was an incredibly kind, gentle, and compassionate man. He had a brilliant intellect and a gift for sensing who was most in pain or most uncomfortable in a room. He’d then make a beeline to that person to engage and encourage them.

But only those closest knew that he struggled from birth with mental illness, dark holes of depression, and even suicidal thoughts. In spite of America’s best doctors, meds, counselors, and prayers for healing, the torture of mental illness never subsided. Today, after a fun evening together with Kay and me, in a momentary wave of despair at his home, he took his life.

Kay and I often marveled at his courage to keep moving in spite of relentless pain. I’ll never forget how, many years ago, after another approach had failed to give relief, Matthew said, “Dad, I know I’m going to heaven. Why can’t I just die and end this pain?” but he kept going for another decade.


Suicide is a devastating blow to any family, and the Warrens’ public ministry just intensifies the pressure. Please join me in praying for Rick, Kay, and the Saddleback family in this time of mourning.

I’ll be sharing more on mental illness, the ministry, and how we deal with these things in the days to come.

Again — the material above is from a posting by Ed Stetzer on Facebook:   please be in prayer for the family and the church.


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